This is due to something called "The Pratfall Effect."
Well, we all want to be perfect and ensure that no mistakes are made anywhere. And, why is that? Perhaps because we think people who make no mistakes are more likeable and appreciated. And, if you think so too, the pratfall Effect might change your perception towards life for the rest of your life.
As described by Elliot Aronson, the pratfall effect indicates that a person might appear more appealing if he makes a mistake. Sounds absurd, right?
Let’s dwell deeper.
This effect depends upon how competent you consider the
other individual. In other words, a person whom you consider highly competent would
become more likeable or attractive after he makes a mistake. On the contrary,
people whom you would label as average on the competency scale tend to become
less attractive, even if they commit the same mistake.
But, why is this? Why are two people making the same mistake
judged differently by your brain?
It’s sympathy that plays an important role here. When a
successful individual commits an error, you tend to sympathize and relate with
him more. On the contrary, sympathizing or relating with a person you consider average,
threatens your self-esteem. Thus, your brain unintentionally rates the average
individual's attractiveness on a comparatively lower level for committing the
same error. In other words, making mistakes make people appear more human and
more approachable. Perfect people can seem threatening or judgemental, but imperfect
people offer a safe zone. Hence, they tend to be more socially attractive.
Moreover, studies have shown that the effects of pratfall are more applicable to males. Generally, women prefer people who do not make any errors regardless of their gender and social status. Although the conclusions cannot be readily generalized to any gender, neither population preferred the mediocre blunderer.
So, the next time you fall on the floor, make sure to make
the best out of it!
Well, i just made a mistake and read this blog after that. Now i have mixed feelings.
ReplyDeleteThis makes so much sense!
ReplyDeleteLoved it 🙌🏻
This might have an applicability in sports too!
ReplyDeleteIndeed
DeleteVery relevant and well put!!
ReplyDeleteEloquently written and well articulated as well
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